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		<description><![CDATA[We Urge You to Look at Your LTC Policy Before You Need It and Check about Elimination Periods and Your Daily Benefit. &#160; Many of our clients at Boca Home Care Services, Inc. have Long Term Care Insurance. They use their policy when personal care and household assistance following a fall, accident, illness or surgery is &#8230; <a href="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com/blog/long-term-care-insurance-elimination-periods/">Read more <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>
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<h2><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">We Urge You to Look at Your LTC Policy Before You Need It and Check about Elimination Periods and Your Daily Benefit.</span></h2>
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<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;"><a href="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/long-term-care-insurance-elimination-period1.gif"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1558" style="margin: 5px 7px;" title="long-term-care-insurance-elimination-period" src="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/long-term-care-insurance-elimination-period1.gif" alt="LTC logo" width="85" height="76" /></a>Many of our clients at <a title="Long Term Care Insurance, Home Care, Home Health Care, Senior Services,Elimination Periods" href="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com/" target="_blank">Boca Home Care Services</a>, Inc. have Long Term Care Insurance. They use their policy when personal care and household assistance following a fall, accident, illness or surgery is needed. The client may be returning home from a hospitalization or Rehab stay, compounding a stressful and busy time of coordinating care while recuperating.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">It’s not unusual for people to forget that the policy they purchased has an “Elimination Period” which likely lowered their premium payments. However it means home care coverage does not begin right away, but after the “Elimination Period” is met. Let’s face it, few people remember the terms of their insurance policies. As time goes by, details fade. It’s an expensive “surprise” through which time you must pay out of pocket for the care you need. Insult to injury, usually the most help is needed at the start of care.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">“Elimination Periods” can be a few days, a few weeks or even a few months. If you require live-in or substantial care, the costs can be thousands of dollars – you didn’t expect to pay.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Boca Home Care Services, urges you to familiarize yourself with your Long Term Care Policy <strong>BEFORE</strong> you need to use it. Call your agent or the company and review the terms of your coverage. If your policy has an “Elimination Period”, plan accordingly. Suggestions include: setting funds aside to cover the period you would have to pay out of pocket expenses for your care, put together a plan with family, neighbors and friends of who can help with which tasks. If some people can do the shopping, bring in cooked dishes, and take you to appointments, then you may need a Home Health Aide just for personal care such as bathing, dressing, respite time and laundry. In this way, you may be able to manage with only the minimum hours from an Aide. Research which food stores, restaurants and pharmacies deliver in your neighborhood.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Lastly, some policies will count days in a Rehabilitation facility and <a target="_blank" title="Medicare Home Health, Visiting Nurse, Physical Therapist, LTC insurance" href="http://bocahomecare.com" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/bocahomecare.com?referer=');">Medicare</a> home health visits (Boca Home Care) towards the “Elimination Period”. Explore these possibilities with your insurer. Ask what paperwork is required to have these Rehab and Medicare visits count</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Elizabeth Cohen, Senior Medical Correspondent/updated 11:34 AM EST, Thu November 10, 2011 A hallmark feature for some people with Alzheimer&#8217;s Disease  is wandering which is scary for the caregiver and potentially very dangerous.  Here are some tips and things to look out for should your loved one be a wanderer with dementia. People with &#8230; <a href="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com/blog/limit-alzheimers-wandering/">Read more <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: xx-small;">By Elizabeth Cohen, Senior Medical Correspondent/</span><span style="font-size: xx-small;">updated 11:34 AM EST, Thu November 10, 2011</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">A hallmark feature for some people with Alzheimer&#8217;s Disease  is wandering which is scary for the <a title="How to limit Alzheimer's wandering" href="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com" target="_blank">caregiver</a> and potentially very dangerous.  Here are some tips and things to look out for should your loved one be a wanderer with dementia.</span></h2>
<p><div id="attachment_1546" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 220px"><a href="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/alz-wander1.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1546 " title="alz wander" src="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/alz-wander1.jpg" alt="" width="210" height="118" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Tips to prevent or tract people who have Alheimer&#39;s Disease and wander.</p></div>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">People with Alzheimer&#8217;s and other forms of dementia often leave clues that they&#8217;re about to wander.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">(CNN) &#8212; It was early evening when Lee Ferrero got in his car to make the trip home from a meeting for work. He&#8217;d done the trip many times over the years, and he looked forward to the drive.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Several hours later he found himself in open farmland in unfamiliar territory. He pulled over, brought out a book of maps, and realized he&#8217;d driven two hours past the turnoff to his home in Los Osos, California.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">&#8220;It was terrifying,&#8221; he remembers now. &#8220;I thought, I didn&#8217;t mean to come here. How did this happen? I just zoned out.&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">But he wasn&#8217;t just zoning out. A visit to the Mayo Clinic in Scottsdale, Arizona, showed Ferrero was in the beginning stages of Alzheimer&#8217;s disease, a form of dementia.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">&#8220;That car ride was a real wake-up call,&#8221; he says.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">After his trip to Mayo, Ferrero&#8217;s wife insisted he get a professional driving evaluation to make sure he was safe to drive. His driving was fine &#8212; the only problem was that he might wander off again down the road.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">It has been five years since that fateful car trip. The disease forced Ferrero, an Air Force veteran, to retire from his position as president and CEO of the Private Industry Council of San Luis Obispo County. Now 64, he doesn&#8217;t want to sit home all the time, and still drives and walks around.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">To decrease the chance he&#8217;ll wander again, Ferrero writes down exactly where he&#8217;s going so he can refer to it later, and he wears an ID bracelet with a 24-hour emergency response number. He hasn&#8217;t had another wandering incident, but knows he might at some point as his disease progresses.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">&#8220;I forget things I never used to forget and I know it&#8217;s only going to get worse,&#8221; he says.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">November is National Alzheimer&#8217;s Disease Awareness Month and Family Caregiver Month. About 60% of the nation&#8217;s 5 million Alzheimer&#8217;s patients will wander, according to Beth Kallmyer, senior director of constituent services at the Alzheimer&#8217;s Association.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">&#8220;This is such a big worry for families,&#8221; she says. &#8220;We tell them their loved ones can wander off at any time, even when you just go into the kitchen for a minute to start dinner.&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Kallmyer advises families that there&#8217;s no way to keep an eye on someone 24-7, but that there are some steps they can take to decrease the chances their loved one will wander.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">1. Keep wandering top of mind</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Sometimes families are surprised when their loved one wanders. Lawrence Schonfeld, an Alzheimer&#8217;s expert, has noticed sometimes families forget that wandering is a huge risk because they&#8217;re so overwhelmed with other aspects of Alzheimer&#8217;s disease.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">That can be a fatal mistake.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">&#8220;Families are worried their loved one will leave the stove on in the kitchen, or they&#8217;re annoyed when their loved one asks the same question over and over again,&#8221; he says. &#8220;Wandering isn&#8217;t always their major concern.&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">2. Pick up on the red flags of wandering</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Wandering can happen at any time, but it&#8217;s more likely in certain situations, such as when someone with dementia is in unfamiliar surroundings.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">People with Alzheimer&#8217;s and other forms of dementia often leave clues that they&#8217;re about to wander. If your loved one says, &#8220;It&#8217;s time to go to work,&#8221; she might truly be headed out the door in a few minutes. &#8220;I want to go home&#8221; might mean he&#8217;s about to go in search of his childhood home, and you have to stop him.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">3. Distract them</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Don&#8217;t say &#8220;Dad, you haven&#8217;t worked in 30 years,&#8221; or &#8220;Mom, you&#8217;re already at home.&#8221; Reasoning won&#8217;t work. Instead, distract.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">&#8220;If they say they want to go to work, tell them &#8216;OK let&#8217;s go see if we can find your shoes,&#8217;&#8221; Schonfeld suggests. &#8220;By the time they get their shoes on they&#8217;ll have forgotten about going to work.&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">4. Block (or disguise) the exits</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">For safety reasons, you should never lock or trap a person with dementia in a home alone. If someone is there with them you can block the doors. There also are screens you can buy that look like, say, library books, so your loved one won&#8217;t realize it&#8217;s in front of a door. You can also put a lock toward the bottom of the door; Kallmyer says people with dementia won&#8217;t think to look for a lock in such an unusual place.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Another idea: Put a mirror or a stop sign on the door, or you can try putting a dark rug in front of the door. People with late-stage dementia might think it&#8217;s a hole and won&#8217;t go near it.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">5. Label your rooms</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Sometimes people with dementia will go wandering off in search of the bathroom or a glass of water and get distracted and actually leave the house. The Mayo Clinic suggests putting a picture of a toilet on the door to the bathroom or food on the door to the kitchen, so they can more easily find what they need.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">6. Keep them busy</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">&#8220;Sometimes people wander out of boredom, or because no one&#8217;s paying attention to them,&#8221; Kallmyer says. &#8220;Spending a lot of time watching TV isn&#8217;t good. Have them wash dishes with you, or fold clothes.&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">You can also enroll your loved one in an adult day care program so they&#8217;ll have interesting activities. Seniorresource.com and Eldercare Locator have search tools for finding a program near you.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">7. Take a walk</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">&#8220;Have them take a walk or exercise with you,&#8221; Schonfeld suggests. &#8220;They may be so tired afterwards they&#8217;ll want to sit for a while.&#8221; Even if they&#8217;re not tired, the social engagement of the walk might be enough to keep them from wandering in search of company.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">8. Provide safe wandering</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Create a path through the rooms of your house as a place for your loved one to wander, or a circular trail through a fenced backyard, the Mayo Clinic advises.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">GPS shoes track dementia patients</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">9. Consider technology</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Some devices alert you if a door is open in the house. Others tell you if your loved one has wandered beyond a certain area. You can even attach a GPS to your loved one and then go online to find him on a map; the GPS might be on a bracelet or in a shoe.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">The Alzheimer&#8217;s Association has an overview of electronic devices that can help keep track of Alzheimer&#8217;s patients, and the association also has information about the ComfortZone and other safety products it sells. American Health Assistance Fund has a partial listing of companies that sell safety products. These devices can be expensive and some have a monthly service fee.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">10. Find the right facility</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Many families aren&#8217;t sure they can safely keep their loved one with dementia at home. The Alzheimer&#8217;s Association has a guide to determining what kind of care you need, and a guide for finding nursing homes and assisted living facilities.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Schonfeld recommends you check out a facility to see whether it has any complaints against it, especially those that involve wandering. The National Long-Term Care Ombudsman Resource Center has a list of state ombudsmans&#8217; offices, which can help you find the complaints.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Be sure to ask the right questions.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">&#8220;Is the door monitored, either electronically or by staff?&#8221; Schonfeld says. &#8220;Do they have electronic devices to keep track of people who wander? And ask about their strategy for what they do if someone does wander off.&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Aaron Cooper and John Bonifield contributed to this report.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: xx-small;">Read more: http://www.cnn.com/2011/11/10/health/alzheimers-lost-empowered-patient/index.html?hpt=hp_bn10</span></p>
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<h2><strong><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">It is so difficult to understand people when they speak in letters rather than words. The medical profession and governmental organizations in particular seem to have their own language comprised of acronyms. This can be immensely frustrating to us civilians. Here is a guide to acronyms most having to do wit<a target="_blank" title="Acronyms, Elder Care Services, Medical, Residential, Hospital, Diseases" href="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com" target="_blank">h Senior Care Services,</a> <a title="Home Care, Medicare, Medical Services, Acronyms" href="http://www.bocahomecare.com" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.bocahomecare.com?referer=');">Home Care</a>, and some medical terms.</span></strong></h2>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;"><a href="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/questions.gif"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1540" title="questions" src="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/questions-285x300.gif" alt="question marks" width="171" height="180" /></a></span></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Acronyms and Abbreviations:</span></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">AAA: Area Agency on Aging</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">ABT: Arterial Blood Pressure</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">AC: Before meals</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">ADA: Americans with Disabilities Act</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">ADC: Adult Day Care</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">ADHC: Adult Day Health Care (see ADC)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">ADL&#8217;S: Activities of Daily Living (&amp; see IADL)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">AHCD: Advanced Health Care Directive</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">APS: Adult Protective Services</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">B&amp;C: Board &amp; Care Facility</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">CNA: Certified Nurses Assistant</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">Cap Dec: Capacity Declaration for Exclusive Informed Medical Consent</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">CCRC: Continuing Care Retirement Facility</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">CFAR: Center for Aging Resources</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">CFP: Certified Financial Planner</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">CFAR: Center for Aging Resources</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">CM: Care Manager or Case Manager</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">CSA: Certified Senior Adviser</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">COE: Conservator of the Estate</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">COP: Conservator of the Person</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">CONS: Conservatorship</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">C&#8217;TOR: Conservator</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">C&#8217;TEE: Conservatee</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">DAC: Disabled Adult Child Benefits or/ Disabled Adult Child</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">DD: Developmentally Disabled</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">DHS: Department of Health Services</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">DP: Discharge Planner</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">DPOAHC: Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">DSM: Diagnostic &amp; Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">DSS: Department of Social Services</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">ESC: Eldercare Services Co-ordinator</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">FC: Family Caregiver</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">FID: Fiduciary</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">GAL: Guardian ad Litem</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">GCM: Geriatric case manager</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">HHA: Home Health Agency</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">HICAP: Health Insurance Couseling &amp; Advocacy Program</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">HIPAA: Health Insurance Portability &amp; Accountability Act</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">HMO: Health Management Organization</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">IADL: Independent Activities of Daily Living (&amp; see ADL)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">ICF: Intermediate Care Facility</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">ICU: Intensive Care Unit</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">IMCU: Intermediate Medical Care Unit</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">IPU: Inpatient Unit</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">LC: Limited Conservatorship</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">PPN: Licensed Practical Nurse</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">LPS: Lanterman-Petris Short &#8211; Mental Health Conservatorship</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">LVN: Licensed Vocational Nurse</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">MICU: Medical Intensive Care Unit</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">MMMNA: Minimum monthly maintenance need allowance</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">MMSE: Mini Mental Status Exam</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">NAPO: National Assn of Professional Organizers</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">NGA: National Guardians Association</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">OPG: Office of Public Guardian</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">PA: Physicians Assistant</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">PCP: Primary Care Physician</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">PF: Professional Fiduciary</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">PFAC: Professional Fiduciaries Assn of California</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">PDN: Private Duty Nurse</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">PDR: Physician&#8217;s Deck Reference</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">PHI: Personal Health Information</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">PICU: Pulmonary Intensive Care Unit</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">PPF: Professional Private Fiduciary</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">POA: Power of Attorney</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">P.O.L.S.T.: Physicians Order for Life-Sustaining Treatment</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">PT: Physical Therapy</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">RW: Respite Worker</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">RCF: Residential Care Facility</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">RCFE: Residential care facility for the Elderly</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">RCU: Respiratory Care Unit</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">RN: Registered Nurse</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">RNA: Registered nursing assistant or Rehabilitation Nursing Assistant</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">ROM: Range of motion</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">SCU: Special Care Unit</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">SDRC: San Diego Regional Center</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">SLMB: Special Low-income Medicare beneficiary</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">SNF: Skilled nursing facility</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">SNT: Special Needs Trust</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">SS: Social Security</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">SSA: Social Security Administration</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">SSI: Supplemental Security Income</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">SSDI: Social Security Disability Insurance</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">SSP: State Supplemental Payment &#8211; augments SSI</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">T&#8217;tee: Trustee</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">USPHA: United States Public Health Admin</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">VA: Veterans Affairs</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva;">W&amp;I: Welfare and Institutions Code</span></p>
<p>Read more: http://www.elder-care-services.com/blog/2011/11/06/Navigating-Senior-Care-Services-Part-1.aspx</p>
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<h2><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Once the decision is reached to that a home health aide or caregiver is needed one has to decide whether to hire privately or go with a licensed company. There is a lot more to consider than price so you must know your responsibilities as an employer or as a client. Also, Long Term Care insurance may come into play.</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;"><a href="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/BHCS_Logo_blue.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1550" title="BHCS_Logo_blue" src="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/BHCS_Logo_blue-300x83.jpg" alt="Boca Home Care Services is a Licensed Home Care Company in South Florida Since 1998." width="300" height="83" /></a>A cautionary tale learned the hard way. Every now and then a client decides that they will hire someone privately who someone in their building used. It is cheaper after all-although as the employer of the privately hired aide, you are legally responsible to pay Social Security and other Federal taxes- remember “NannyGate”?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Last week, a client did just that, they decided they wanted to save their insurance, hired someone referred to them and discontinued service. Two days later <a title="Home Care, Private Duty, Licensed Home Care,  Certified Caregiver" href="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com" target="_blank">Boca Home Care Services</a> received a call from the hospital from this client. Her new aide whom she hired on her own didn’t stay with her or come when called so the client attempted getting to the bathroom on her own, fell, is severely bruised along her left side. Thankfully, nothing was broken, but her spirit.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Of course this scenario can happen with the best of care however, the client had no recourse. She couldn’t call the office and ask for a new caregiver. No one could speak to the aide and set a higher standard. The client learned the hard way, she was on her own. We were back on service in the hospital that day. Even though her LTC insurance doesn’t cover in the hospital, she wanted one on one help in the morning to start her day.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">There are tangible, important advantages to hiring a caregiver through a licensed company. You have back up in case the caregiver cannot work or they change schedules. The aides are screened and credentialed. There is accountability and transparency. When you or a loved one is incapacitated these things are wor</span>th the cost.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Posted: 1/21/12 06:12 PM ET/Bronnie Ware is a writer and songwriter from Australia. A Hospice care worker relates her findings culled from many patients over time. Ms. Ware has consolidated the top five regrets her patients communicated to her. Some are typical, wihshing they worked less and others are very poignant about wishing they had &#8230; <a href="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com/blog/top-5-regrets-dying/">Read more <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>
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<h2><span style="font-size: x-small;">Posted: 1/21/12 06:12 PM ET/Bronnie Ware is a writer and songwriter from Australia.</span></h2>
<p><em><strong><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">A Hospice care worker relates her findings culled from many patients over time. Ms. Ware has consolidated the top five regrets her patients communicated to her. Some are typical, wihshing they worked less and others are very poignant about wishing they had chosen to be happier. Overall, it is our relationships which matter most to us inour last weeks and days.</span></strong></em></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;"> <a href="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/hospice-hands.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1530" title="hospice hands" src="http://www.bocahomecareservices.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/hospice-hands.jpg" alt="Five common regrets of people in end stage of their life in Hospice care." width="158" height="105" /></a>         Ms. Ware worked in palliative care for many years. Her patients were those who had gone home to die. She spent the last 3 to 12 weeks of their lives with them.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them. She reports being amazed at the capacity for growth and change a person has at the end of their life.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Here are the five regrets or things they would have done differently, the common themes as told to Ms. Ware by her patients.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">1. I wish I&#8217;d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">This was the most common regret of all. Most people had not realized even a half of their dreams and knew that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">It is so crucial to realize and live some of your dreams while you still have your health and strength. Once illness and weakness take over your body, it is usually much harder or not possible to do so.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">2. I wish I didn&#8217;t work so hard.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Every male patient stated this regret. The fact that they missed much of their children’s formative years loomed large. Many women cited it also though most were from an older generation and were homemakers.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Many, though not all are our choices on how we wish to live and compete with neighbors. How we value our time, what we must do without if we choose to value time over objects.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">3. I wish I&#8217;d had the courage to express my feelings.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Many of her patients said they suppressed their feelings in order not to rock the boat and they wish they had been more honest. Some felt this suppression ate them up inside and may have led to their illness.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">It is hard to be honest with people but by doing so, it can deepen a relationship or end one that was either negative or superficial.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">Ms. Ware found that “Everyone misses their friends when they are dying. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away.”</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">We all lead busy lives and live far away from one another in some cases, therefore friendships slip away. At the end of life, people want to get their finances and business in order. The thing is, by then they are usually too weak to do so and it falls to others to do. It is our relationships and loves that matter at the end of our life. The loves, the friends are what count most. The nurturing of these relationships can only be done before one is too ill or weak to d</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">This is a surprisingly common one. Many of her patients only realized that “happiness” is a choice once they were at the end of their life. Fear of change, falling into the familiar and comfortable or just plain old patterns make it harder for us to realize this.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying. Her patients said they wished they had laughed more, longer and could be silly more.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;">This post was originally published on Inspiration and Chai.</span></p>
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